“A good rule of thumb is that whatever someone says or does to you, it’s not about you… it’s about them, what they see in the mirror, and how they see the world. Don’t let a person’s sense of what they perceive to be their value of you impose on your own sense of self-worth and abilities. Give these people a gentle nudge (or maybe even a firm kick) out the proverbial door.” ~ Phyllis Ida Concordia