December Solstice – Merry Winter!

The December solstice will occur at 5:30 am GMT on Thursday, December 22nd 2011.

The December solstice is also known as the winter solstice in the northern hemisphere and the summer solstice in the southern hemisphere.

The December solstice has played an important role the lives of many people in ancient times. To this day, the world is still influenced by various traditions linked to the observance of the December solstice.

The December solstice, in the Northern hemisphere, is unique among days of the year — the time of the longest night and the shortest day. At this time, the dark triumphs but only briefly. The Solstice is also a turning point from which (until the June solstice, the summer solstice), the nights grow shorter and the days grow longer. Some friends, here in the Northern hemisphere, feel we are plunged into winter, perhaps unfairly, by Mother Nature. But we must remember, this point marks a much more hopeful time, where our periods of light increase (by about one minute) per day! This prospect excites me! Even though I consider myself a “night person”, I do realize the benefits of daylight to my psyche! (I still try my best to avoid direct sunlight, and we should all be protecting ourselves with a good sunscreen regardless of the season!)

Many of the customs associated with the December solstice, and other northern hemisphere mid-winter festivals such as Santa Lucia’s Day, Saturnalia, Hanukkah, Christmas, New Year’s Day and Twelfth Night all derive from stories of a mighty battle between the dark and the light, which is won, naturally, by the light. Other traditions acknowledge and celebrate this as the time a savior, the Sun-Child, born to a virgin mother. The world’s cultural and religious traditions are so much intertwined!

The Battle Between Dark and Light

Saturnalia, celebrated by the Romans from December 17th to December 24th with a festival called during which all work was put aside in favor of feasting and gambling. The social order was reversed; masters waited on their slaves. Saturnalia is named after Saturn, who is often depicted with a sickle like the figures of Death or Old Father Time. Astrologically speaking, Saturn is saturnine: gloomy, old, dutiful and heavy. He was the god who ate his own children rather than let them surpass him. For new life to flourish, for the sun to rise again, it is necessary to vanquish this gloomy old fellow. Therefore, the feasting and merriment of the mid-winter season were religiously mandated in order to combat the forces of gloom.

The day following the Saturnalia, was the Juvenalia (yay for Latin words), a holiday in honor of children who were entertained, feasted and given good luck talismans (amulets). After vanquishing the Old King, it’s time to celebrate the new in the form of children, the New Year’s Baby, the Son of Man. Naturally this is the time of the year at which the birth of Christ is celebrated, since he is also the New King, the Light of the World who brings light.

Music For The December Solstice

This history of Saturnalia reminds me of Led Zeppelin’s song “The Battle of Evermore”, although the lyrics of which are inspired by “The Lord of the Rings” by J.R.R. Tolkien.  I think of it being wrapped up in the December solstice.

I also love listening to To Drive the Cold Winter Away by Loreena McKennitt, A Winter Garden: Five Songs For The Season (also by Loreena McKennitt, but out of print) or if you don’t have access to that CD, there is actually an extended version of this release (with eight additional songs) called A Mid-Winter Night’s Dream, by Loreena McKennitt.  All of this is all lovely music for the holidays and winter season.  New age and spiritual… it’s just pretty to listen to and it is so appropriate for now and the holidays!

The Birth of the Sun

Christ’s birthday was not celebrated on December 25th until the 4th century. Before then, December 25th was best known as the birthday of the Persian hero and sun-god, Mithra. The myth tells that he sprang up full-grown from a rock, armed with a knife and carrying a torch. Shepherds watched his miraculous appearance and hurried to greet him with the first fruits of their flocks and their harvests. The cult of Mithra spread all over the Roman Empire. In 274 AD, the Roman emperor Valerian declared December 25th the Birthday of Sol Invictus, the Unconquerable Sun.

Christ was also not the first miraculous child born to a virgin mother. Resources state “the virgin birth of heroes and sages was a widespread formula in the Hellenistic world: Pythagorus, Plato, Alexander were all believed to be born of woman by the power of a holy spirit.”

The union of a virgin and a supernatural force, like the couplings between Zeus and assorted nymphs, was shorthand indicating the presence of a miraculous child, a child with the powers of both worlds. Dionysus is such a child, born of a union between Zeus and Semele.

Lenaia was a women-only mid-winter festival honoring Dionysos. According to one reference, on this night, Greek women “held their ecstatic dances in winter — fully clothed in Greek dress, with castanets or the thyrsus, dancing together with no male companions, human or satyr.” Some called it Lenaea, the Festival of Wild Women (a nice companion for the Festival of Merry Women on December 14th). A bull, representing Dionysus, was cut into nine pieces, with one piece being burned and the rest consumed raw by the worshippers. Dionysus was born in winter, crowned with serpents, became a lion in the spring and was sacrificed as a bull (stag or goat) in the summer because these were calendar emblems of the old tripartite year. Some refer to Dionysus as a Year God. Mithra was also associated with the bull (his initiates were baptized with the blood of a sacrificed bull) and shown with the emblems of the zodiac surrounding him, suggesting that he is also a “Year God”.

Lenaia occurred on the twelfth day of the Greek lunar month, Gamelion, which falls in early winter. The twelfth day of a lunar month (which begins with the new moon) always falls on a full moon night. If we move this lunar festival to the solar calendar and count from the winter solstice, the festival would occur on January 5th or 6th.

Until the fourth century, Christ’s birthday was celebrated on January 6th, on the same date when the Virgin Kore gave birth to the year god celebrated in Alexandria with a festival called the Koreion. St. Epiphanius complains about the hideous mockery of this rite but it preceded the story of Christ’s birth. In the original ritual, the image of the goddess, decorated with gold stars, was carried seven times around her temple as the priests cried, “The Virgin has brought forth the new Aeon!”

Although Aeon, or Eon, is now defined as “an indefinitely long period of time; an age, eternity,” its Indo-European root aiw conveyed “vital force, life, long life, eternity,” and the Greek form Aion meant specifically “vital force.”

This description recalls the Egyptian ceremony re-enacting the birth of Horus, the sun-god to Isis. All lights in the city were doused while Isis circled the sarcophagus seven times, then brought forth Horus who was called “the Light of the World.” Statues of Isis holding the newly born sun god on her lap, presenting him to the world, are similar to pose to later statues representing Mary and Jesus.

The Festival of Lights

The return of the light is the most prominent feature of most mid-winter festivals. In Sweden on St. Lucy’s Day, young girls wear white dresses and a wreath of candles and awaken their families with cakes and song. Hanukkah, the Festival of Lights, is celebrated by lighting candles over a span of eight days. The Christian custom of the Advent wreath, with its four candles, one lit each of the Sundays before Christmas, is another way of re-kindling the light.

The Christmas candle, a large candle of red or some other bright color decorated with holly or other evergreens, was at one time a popular custom throughout Great Britain, Ireland and Scandinavia. One person, usually the eldest or the head of the household, is designated as the lightbringer. She lights the candle for the first time on Christmas Eve before the festive dinner and during each of the remaining evenings of the Twelve Days of Christmas. To extinguish the candle, she snuffs it with tongs rather than blowing it out, since that would blow the luck away. The candle sheds a blessing on the household and so is protected from accidental quenching. It seems likely that the candle also represented the coming year, just as the weather of each of the twelve days of Christmas foretell the weather of the corresponding month. It had protective or fertilizing powers and was kept as a charm. In Denmark, during a lightning storm, the remnant would be brought out and lit to protect the household.

Similar customs once surrounded the Yule log. The Yule log must never be bought but could be received as a gift, found or taken from you own property. Often the log to be burned at midwinter was chosen early in the year and set aside.

Tradition varies about the type of wood to be used. Oak logs were popular in the north of England, birch in Scotland and ash in Cornwall and Devon. Ash is the only wood that burns freely when green and the world-tree, Yggdrasil, in the Nordic tradition, was an ash-tree. It is important that the Yule log be the biggest and greenest log available since the Christmas festivities will last only as long as the Yule log burns!  (I can only imagine families and friends announcing, “Okay, everyone, party’s over… the fire is out!”)

In some parts of the Scottish highlands, the head of the household finds a withered stump and carves it into the likeness of an old woman, the Cailleach Nollaich or Christmas Old Wife, a sinister being representing the evils of winter and death. She’s the goddess of winter, the hag of night, the old one who brings death. Burning her drives away the winter and protects the occupants of the household from death.

The Yule log is first brought into the house with great ceremony on Christmas Eve (or the eve of solstice, if one prefers). Usually it is decorated with holly and ivy and other evergreens of the season. Some people prefer to use the Yule log as a decoration and place candles on it instead, thus transforming it into a candelabra like the menorah or the kinara.

In Italy, the Yule log is called the Ceppo.  Boccaccio in the fourteenth century described a Florentine family gathering about the hearth and pouring a libation of wine upon the glowing wood, then sharing the remaining wine, thus linking the Yule log with the custom of wassailing, pouring out libations to the trees in the orchard.

The Yule log is left to burn all night, and, if possible, through the next twelve without going out, although it may be extinguished with water. The ashes are kept for good luck. They have magical properties and can be scattered in the field to fertilize the soil or sprinkled around the house for protection.

The Solstice Evergreen
Another ancient midwinter custom is decorating with greens. The Romans decorated with rosemary (ooo… the scent of fresh rosemary), bay, laurel, holly, ivy and mistletoe. (What a lovely combination of scents and beautiful greenery!) The holly and ivy were both important midwinter plants in Great Britain and Ireland, as heard in the lyrics of the mysterious medieval carol which mentions the rivalry between them. This 15th century carol refers to an ancient battle between the two, with the Ivy representing the cold gloominess of winter and the Holly King, the jolly spirit of the season.

The history of the Christmas tree has origins based all the way back to the 15th century, although some historians will say it is a more recent tradition. The earliest record of an evergreen being decorated comes from the country of Latvia in 1519, when a group of local merchants carried an evergreen adorned with flowers to the marketplace, where they danced around it and then burned it. Another possible source is the custom in 15th and 16th century Germany of hanging apples on a fir tree as a prop for the miracle play performed on Christmas Eve depicting the Biblical Adam and Eve being driven out of Paradise.

Yule

You should enjoy yourself as much as possible on the December Solstice because this will bring back the light into the world. Different traditions mention feasting, gambling, playing pranks, giving gifts, visiting, drinking, dressing up, putting on plays and staying up all night… and yes, ummm… fornicating. During the dark of winter, invoke all the forces of pleasure and love which make life worth living.

Decorating for this festival is easy since you can use all your Christmas decorations. Evergreens and wreaths represent rebirth and the circle of life. Fill your home with candles and Christmas lights. Place them on mirrors so all of the light reflects, hang up lots of sparkly ornaments and prisms and tinsel so you can create as much light as possible. Oh what fun!

Embracing The Darkness

Earlier traditions focused on the battle between the dark and the light, but we know both are valuable. Honor the dark before calling in the light. This is the season when animals hibernate and nature sleeps and we can turn inward too. Perhaps some of the depression people feel during the holidays comes from not providing a space for feeling the sadness associated with this season. Set aside time (hard to do amidst the frenzy of the holidays) for sitting in the dark and quiet. I like to spend the entire day of the Winter Solstice in silence and reflection.

This is a natural time for letting go and saying farewell. Release your resentments and regrets into the darkness, knowing they will be transformed. Write about them in your journal or write them on slips of paper which you can burn in your Yule fire. Use your holiday cards to make amends to people you’ve hurt or neglected, this is a friendly and healing tradition, and it is, in fact, social networking! I think receiving a card in the mail is lovely, but we all want to save a tree, and save money – mailing cards is expensive! But try, to reach out by mailing holiday cards. It just feels good.

It sounds new age-y and spiritual… but, remember, when you light your candles and your fire, do so with the intention of bringing light into the world. What are the ways in which you can help make the world brighter? How do you bring light into the lives of those around you? Make a conscious effort to increase the amount of light you create for yourself and others!

Romantic? Cloying? Sweethearts and Their Heartthrobs Connect… No Matter Where They Are

  • Do you experience separation anxiety when the love of your life travels away from you overnight?
  • Are you in a long-distance romance and longing to feel together as one?

If you are seeking the comfort of someone you love to be right there with you as you sleep Pillow Talk will help you connect with your otherwise inaccessible darling sweetheart sugarplum!

 
With Pillow Talk your distant love’s heartbeat and sense of glowing warmth is as close as your pillow. Whether you’re in down the road, in different cities or in opposing countries, you can always feel a sense of togetherness and your love is just a heartbeat away and as close as your pillow.
Here’s how it works, according to the Pillow Talk website:

Each person has a ring sensor they wear to bed at night, and a flat fabric panel which slots inside their pillowcase. The ring wirelessly communicates with the other person’s pillow; when one person goes to bed their lover’s pillow begins to glow softly to indicate their presence. Placing your head on the pillow allows you to hear the real-time heartbeat of your loved one.
The result is an intimate interaction between two lovers, regardless of the distance between them.

The couple each put on their ring which in turn monitors the heartbeat, and as heads hit the pillow it creates a comforting (or perhaps possibly to some… and eerie) glow.


Unfortunately, Pillow Talk is not yet available, pending further development, and now has funding to create manufacture the prototype, and the company is welcoming further funding assistance.
Pillow Talk is a creation by Joanna Montgomery, a 23-year who has attended Dundee University, finishing with a First Class BSC in Digital Interaction Design. Her company is Little Riot, and is in the UK.

Romantic to some, ridiculous to others… but endearing. Anything that helps the ones you love feel close seems to be a good thing, especially when couples often make sacrifices for work-related trips and military leaves. It may also be nice for when your sweetie may have a hospital stay. Once it is available, it is sure to be romantic gift for many!
See more of Pillow Talk at http://www.littleriot.co.uk/ and

Where To Draw The Line

The controversy over Marc Jacobs Oh Lola! Perfume featuring Dakota Fanning is not a black or white issue for me.

The perfume “Oh Lola!” features an advertising campaign DESIGNED for controversy. Society inadvertently helps to thrive on creating a PERFECT, NO-COST advertising campaign for the very companies and products they are hoping to ban. This creates more interest in the very issues and items they hope to “squash”.

Here is the problem, the Oh Lola! Perfume advertising portrays innocence as an enticing form of sexuality. The pictures may seem cheeky in a “no big deal” sort of way to many who may argue that Dakota Fanning is seventeen years old and the pictures are very tame. That was MY initial thinking and probably the thinking of most of our rational society. However, giving it more consideration I do see where this IS a problem… because not everyone shares MY attitude towards sex, which by the way, is not as free-spirited as one might think. Dakota Fanning is a child, I am a huge fan of this child actress and am partially disappointed in the idea that she is losing her innocence and there is nothing I can do about this… I am not her parent, and this is not my personal concern… BUT it IS SOCIETY’S personal concern if society decides it is! And that’s just what is happening in the UK… Marc Jacob’s Oh Lola! ad… banned… slap-slap Mac Jacobs!

The picture in the ad is “nothing” or is it? 

Considering that controversy was the desired effect for this ad, this is “SOMETHING”.

Many in society call this “nothing” and then we are astonished and upset when we encounter the countless crimes of child pornography and  sexual abuse.  This must sound a bit dramatic, I realize.  But it is certainly a stepping stone.  This is not the first time, nor will it be the last time we have an obscure line to define and draw as a society.

Where do we draw the line as a society for a sick-o putting suggestive pictures of children “out there” or a company putting a suggestive ad “out there” with the purpose of selling their product.

Thumbs down to Marc Jacobs, and thumbs down to the PARENTS of Dakota Fanning for not using better judgment for their talented and beautiful child. 

Click here for a YouTube link to a story regarding this controversy, this opens in a new window.

Durrr…

~Don’t Make Me Call My Flying Monkeys!

Children Are NOT Parents… Let Them Be The Children They Are

Children Enjoy Being A Child

Children Enjoy Being Children

 

Children… many of us are blessed to have one or more children.  We either intended to have our children or they came to us regardless of planning to have or not to have.  Still some feel fortunate to have never had a child of their own. 

Focusing on the idea of parents with more than one child, where one of the children is a few years older than the next.  WHY… oh… WHY do some parents use their older child as the primary caregiver.

I cringe when I hear things like “I said CHANGE YOUR SISTER!”  “It’s YOUR job to give YOUR BROTHER a BATH!” 

No… parents… it is NOT!  It’s YOUR JOB to care for your children.  Aside from the idea that an older child could lend a hand as needed it is NEVER another child’s JOB to do such things!  It isn’t as if the child was begging you for a pet that they promised to help take care of.

PARENTS… YOUR CHILDREN ARE YOURS!  We should NEVER allow ourselves to say that it is a CHILD’S JOB to take care of another CHILD.  We should never cast that responsibility on a child.

Ask for help… once in a while… and PRAISE that older child for their help, being so responsible and caring.  It’s not their job… at least not yet.  Let your children be children and don’t take the chance to be a child away from anyone.

You never really grow up… we are all children inside… that is what growing older teaches you.  Adults often enjoy being children… and WE know we have responsibilities.  Don’t give YOUR children adult stressors.  Give YOUR children the valuable gift of allowing them to be children while it’s acceptable in life!  Introduce them to HELPING you… not giving them the ADULT task of caring for another human being.

Liking Yourself… On Facebook

Liking Yourself... On Facebook

Why does Facebook even give me the option to “Like” my own status? Of course I like my status, I’m fucking hilarious. And sexy.

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Be What You Are!

“People are always blaming their circumstances for what they are. I don’t believe in circumstances. The people who get on in this world are the people who get up and look for the circumstances they want, and, if they can’t find them, make them.” ~ George Bernard Shaw

Blaming others relinquishes your personal power to change.

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